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Misma's Counselling Services
This blog is a space for thoughtful reflection on life’s many nuances,
sharing insights from counselling, psychotherapy, and psychology,
along with some free-flowing thoughts and reflections.
Anger is often perceived as an emotion to be controlled, suppressed, or avoided. In many cultures and families, people are taught from a young age that expressing anger is unacceptable or dangerous. However, from a psychodynamic perspective, anger is rarely just about a present situation—it is often rooted in deeper, unresolved emotional wounds, particularly those linked to trauma. In my practice, I frequently work with clients who experience anger in ways that feel overwhelming, confusing, or even frightening. Rather than seeing anger as a problem to be "fixed," I encourage slowing down, reflecting, and exploring its origins. When we understand anger as a response to trauma, it can become a gateway to healing rather than a force of destruction. Understanding Anger Through a Trauma LensTrauma, whether from childhood neglect, abuse, violence, relational wounds, or overwhelming life events, has a profound impact on the nervous system and emotional regulation. Trauma survivors often experience heightened emotional reactivity, difficulty trusting others, and a deep-seated fear of vulnerability. Anger, in this context, serves multiple psychological and physiological functions:
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